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What I constantly highlight in my trainings is that it's just we're dancing. Your target market does not see the technique. The audience sees an item of art, the fluidity, the dance, the activity.

I understand the procedural actions. I've researched them for years. But in those minutes where we're interacting with the child or the system, we are dancing with them. See, there is fluidity and there is a dancing that is established in synchronicity and connection and all those fantastic points that you also instruct about.

There is a procedural step, leading, second, number three. Right. Along with that, I do assume that if we utilize treatment simply like as a method, it will not have the very same impact because it's still continued with an embodied mind that can mentalization, that we're able to hold the child's mind in mind in those minutes of vibration as we do EMDR treatment.

And for that, we also need to do our very own job, which I have gotten a great deal of EMDR therapy. I need to experience it. I need to recognize what it feels to go to those shadows within me. And I have to claim that this inner sees are the ones that truly have actually helped me take concept to a different degree, due to the fact that or else it remains simply concept.

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And I know you do that too, Lisa. When I have actually assumed about my very own experience with EMDR, what's commonly landed for me is this idea of I have a procedure and it's up to me to bring it to life. That's how I speak about it for myself.

It's a protocol. It's an architectural drawing of a residence. Yes. Someone has to develop it, right? A person needs to bring life to it. A person has to bring it forth. And I have frequently thought that that's where so a lot of the magic and the healing takes location is the way in which the therapist brings it to life in an attuned means with the customer.

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It's such an attractive reminder of our duty in the healing procedure and our responsibility in the recovery process. Likewise. One of things that I often inform my trainees is that we can't help with modification unless we can see something that our clients can recognize they're not able to see.

We have to want and able to see something that they can not quite yet. And when I hear you speaking about we need to go right into our own winters months, I even enjoy that language you're utilizing. We have to go right into our own wintertimes. What enters your mind is this idea of if I do not understand that my winter months can transform into summer, then I'm not going to have assurance when I'm with my customer that their winter months can transform into summertime.

And I will not be able to hold a brand-new possibility for my customer since I haven't been with it, to be able to say it's feasible, the assimilation, the transformation is possible because I don't know. I would certainly love for you to speak even more of that around therapists, possibly also getting stuck in the tale with the customers or I don't recognize.

As therapists is our own obligation to know what it seems like to relocate with something and what that can bring to our customers. Yeah, I love that the example and how went from winter seasons to you took it to the next degree. As we experience also the springtime and the summertime, yet we likewise discover the loss, right.

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As we browse and dance with the different stages of life. I assume that we're better outfitted to go along with an additional human mind, symbolized mind, to do understand to go via that trip. There is an author, Sarah simply forgot her surname. And she speaks about folklore, which I'm captivated by, that I just romance.

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As we go through the abyss, after that she said, which I love, this, the incorrect self is going to begin to alter and after that the authentic self arises. And so via those trips, death and rejuvenation, after that we locate that we are and at some point the among us that travel back and forth, then we learn to go along with others.

And so in EMDR treatment, we embrace those shadows. We embrace it's not just a memory as a cognitive spoken story, yet we welcome the experiences from a symbolized point of view.

I suggest, there are moments, despite having my grown-up customers, where I feel like so recognized to be because moment and to be able to accompany an additional human being, to visit those deep degrees, those deep places of our human presence, right. Those layers that are so deep, where you recognize that because minute something was changed.

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Those are deep moments that you obtain goosebumps and you recognize, wow, something happened here. I mean, I'm even having emotion, paying attention and reflecting on what you're saying. And I know for me, it's why I decided to come to be a therapist, due to the fact that I wanted to be of solution to somebody.